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IMDB rating: 5.20 Plot: Michael is a recovering alcoholic/drug user. Back on the wagon, he’s now responsible for a young, beautiful, and pregnant wife. He’s working the graveyard shift at a gas station to support his new family, but the job drives him crazy. Then a wealthy stranger, Stuart, enters Michael’s life, taking Michael through a tour of the seediest and slimiest parts of L.A. underbelly. Is Stuart leading Michael to hell, or salvation? |
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Actors: Getty Balthazar,Weller Peter,Greene Peter,Forrest Frederic,Dourif Brad,Dorn Michael,Nemec Corin,Whitworth Johnny,Landey Clayton,Moll Richard,Doyle Christopher,Drama,Thriller,
Hi everybody… need your help/advice on leaving a relationship?
I am getting more and more depressed by the day and feel completley trapped.
I have been with my partner for 7 years, we have an 8 month old baby girl. Basically it is an abusive relationship (not physical, just mental and verbal) and ive had enough. I dont want my daughter around this and im genuinly depressed and unwell and on medication. Im a shadow of my former self. Before people do ask, understandably, why did I have a baby with this man. Well back then I couldnt see what was happening and the last few months it has got worse.
We hardly see each other anyway (he works a lot) and he doesnt help with anything and doesnt get involved with our daughter. I pretty much am already a single parent.
I have to watch what I say, im still on maternity leave and not getting much money (?123 a week) and he gets around ?500 a week,. Anyway I get no help with anything and usually end up paying more than him in terms of bills. He gets angry very easily (an example was about an hour ago before he left for work) he lost his temper because I bought lightbulbs in the food shopping and we had one packet in the house already) It sounds awful when I write this down and maybe silly but I dont know what to do.
I want to leave so badly but im scared he will turn nasty. I know that if I left he would demand to take our daughter out and he isnt very safe. He has never been out on his own with her and he does things like not put the belt round her car seat when we go out (of course I make sure its done) but he shouts and says ‘were only going to town) or something like that. So id be petrified of him taking her out and her not being safe. I cant bear it. Hes also very jealous and possesive and ive lost all my friends as whenever I went out he would check up on me. I havent been out in years, whereas of course he has and always sees his friends.
Im not usually a weak person but i feel like im trapped as I said. I would never be able to afford a house on my own.
Has anybody been in a similar situation and got out? Or does anybody have any advice
Sorry it was long
Thank you
Poison
Wga | Nov 17, 2009
Honey,
dont think its crazy that u have a daughter to this guy things happen for a reason! Dont ever regret what u did once cause at that time it was right and yourself and your beautiful daughter should get out of there this is not good for your health, thats crazy you need your time out and your friends! Stay with family for a while, you need to get out thats not a good place to be around with a baby girl. You either have to put your foot down and let him know how ur really feeling or you need to get out honey because it does not sound like he will change. He sounds quiet arrogant! An it sounds like its his way or the highway. Your are a human being as well i know he may be the man but u have feeling and a life to. Theres not much more i can say other then u need to be a bit stronger and do wats in your heart as u said u have a baby girl to this man. But that doesnt matter honey by ur self or with the help of ur family you would do great. Your no slave, your have ur life to live and a little ones life to raise be smart hun! Trust me iv been through it before, for 3 years. If you need any advise on anything else let me know, Hope it all works out.
xx
Chanel | Nov 17, 2009
This isn’t healthy, what do your family say when you mention how you feel and how things really are?
This should be your first port of call as they are there to listen and help.
Regardless of his job,which by the sounds of it he would’nt give up to look after you daughter, he would crumble under the treat of having to look after her 24/7 so don’t for one second feel that could be a reality , she will be with you whatever happens.
pieman66 | Nov 17, 2009